Deep Conversations Deck

When preparing for marriage, love feels like enough – but love alone doesn’t answer the questions that truly matter. What are your expectations in marriage? How do you handle conflict? What are your dreams, values, and dealbreakers?

Deep Conversations: Before The Nikah is a carefully curated deck of 60 thought-provoking questions designed specifically for soon-to-be-married Muslim couples. These questions guide you through the meaningful, sometimes uncomfortable conversations that many overlook but are essential for a successful marriage.

Why It Matters:

Inspired by insights from married couples, this deck is based on a simple truth: many couples wish they had asked more before the nikah. Questions that go beyond the surface – uncovering expectations, values, and communication styles – can help you avoid misunderstandings and build a marriage grounded in trust, alignment, and love that lasts.

What’s Inside:

• 9 Categories of Conversation: Covering essential areas like roles & responsibilities, conflict resolution, finances, family planning, intimacy, and more.
• 60 Questions: Designed to spark clarity, connection, and a deeper understanding of your partner.
• A Guided Experience: Each card encourages reflection and honest dialogue to help you align on the things that matter most.

Who It’s For:

This deck is perfect for soon-to-be-married Muslim couples who want to:

• Build a strong foundation for their marriage.
• Align on values, goals, and expectations.
• Prepare for the challenges ahead with open and honest communication.
• Deepen their emotional and spiritual connection, grounded in Islamic principles.

How to Get Started:

1. Find a quiet, comfortable place
   • Choose a space free from distractions where you can focus on each other. This is your special time to connect. For engaged couples, we recommend having a mahram or a family member present to ensure a respectful and appropriate setting.
2. Draw a card
   • You have the flexibility to choose! Pick a card randomly for a surprise or intentionally select one question from each of the 9 categories. Tailor the experience to what feels right for your conversation.
3. Engage deeply
   • Answer the questions sincerely and with patience. Be honest and transparent, clarify any doubts, and be non-judgmental. Allow time for both partners to share their thoughts and emotions.
4. Cherish the moments
   • Laugh together, reflect on your journey, and discover new depths in your relationship. These conversations are designed to prepare you for a lifetime of love and understanding.

Because Your Future Together Deserves Preparation

Marriage is more than a wedding. It’s a commitment, a partnership, and a journey you’ll walk together – for life.

Deep Conversations: Before The Nikah helps you start that journey with confidence, clarity, and connection.

“Sometimes the hardest questions lead to the strongest answers – and a stronger marriage.”